CLICK HERE FOR BLOGGER TEMPLATES AND MYSPACE LAYOUTS »

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

He's Home...

I don't have much time to blog...But I just wanted to say that Matt is HOME!!! And I couldn't be happier :) He is my hero and I am so proud of him...I am not letting him go for a LONG time now!!! How lucky am I that I get to be his wife in less than 90 days! I can't wait...

Ok...gotta go! Lots to do ;) Thanks to Cara and Patrick for being such great friends to us both, and we will be thinking of both of them, and praying that time passes quickly. We are proud of both of you and understand how hard this is at times...but we all know that it's worth it!!!

Love you all...Kara and Matt

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Photo Tag

Alright...so Cara tagged me in her blog and asked me to find the fourth picture in the fourth folder where my pictures are stored. I had no idea what it would be...but after I found it, I realized it couldn't have been better :)



This is a picture of my very first surfboard the day I picked it up! I was so excited and spent a lot of time just looking at it, taking off the old wax and putting on new wax, and throwing it in the back of my 4-runner, which I had always wanted to do! (It may have even influenced my decision to buy a 4-runner in the first place)

This is a great picture because it sort of represents my new life in San Diego. A little over a year and a half ago I moved to San Diego from Michigan, and only knew one person! My roommate, Desire, taught one of my classes a few years ago, and welcomed me to San Diego with open arms. She definitely was a savior for me because she showed me around and encouraged me to meet people and put myself out there. We had lots of fun in our tiny apartment with all our animals!

I began surfing with people I had met here, and absolutely loved it! It took a lot of courage to try and paddle out into the ocean, and there were a few times I was afraid I might drown!!! But I kept at it, and as my skills at surfing increased, so did my confidence! I surfed a lot with a friend of mine who was also from Michigan, and he lived across the hall from Matt and his roommate Joe. He introduced me to Matt...and the rest is history!!! Surfing taught me to work at what I wanted, and to chase after it even if I was afraid. It also taught me to better communicate my fears, and self-limiting beliefs. It truly helped me to seek out the life I wanted...and the friendships, relationship, and family that I wanted too!

I love to surf with anyone who likes to go out! It has definitely brought me closer to Matt, and my friends James, Stephanie, and Leslie! I couldn't think of anything I would love more than to spend a hot summer day out in the waves with the people who are closest to me! I feel free out there, and independent, and confident. I know I will surf as long as I possibly can, and that I will love every minute of it :)

After a challenging day of surfing with Matt and James, we all decided that my surfboard was a little too big for me because I had a hard time getting it out in bigger waves. So...I sold my beloved board to a friend of ours and now it is his turn to voyage out into the ocean with her. I have since stolen Matt's board, which I named Cali-lilly, and it have been in love with her ever since! I can paddle out with a lot less effort, and have been able to get up on most of the waves I tried to go for. The only problem now is that he is coming home soon and I may not be able to give her back to him very easily! ;)

I can't wait to spend this summer with Matt, and paddle out into the waves with him on all those perfect, blue and golden days!!! Hopefully my experiences this summer have prepared me for him to come back, and I will actually be better than him now ;) Stand by for an update...not long now!!!

Thanks for the tag Cara...I love this picture, and have loved explaining it's meaning to everyone!

Friday, January 2, 2009

My Christmas present...

Well, my Christmas present came a little early this year...No, Matt didn't miraculously show up at my door, unfortunately :( But, besides that, I couldn't have asked for a better gift. I spent Christmas eve traveling from Virginia and Atlanta to see my family, and the people I encountered along the way truly touched my heart!

My first flight from Virginia to Charlotte flew by, since I fell asleep right when we took off and woke up just as we were landing. In Charlotte I had an hour lay over, so I headed to my gate and sat down. I made a stop at the bathroom and a girl started talking to me about how she had just helped a young girl who was diabetic and had low blood sugar. She said that she was nervous about approaching the girl, but that the girl and her boyfriend looked scared and didn't seem to know what to do. She said that she had put a granola bar in her bag earlier that morning, and then had been able to give it to the girl to help her to get her blood sugar up. She was a really nice girl, and I was truly touched by her story! I felt lucky to have been able to talk with her, and was very glad that she approached me.

I headed back to the gate and heard that they were taking volunteers to take a later flight so that the people who had been overbooked could have a seat on the flight. I called my mom to see where they were since her and my step-dad were driving down to Atlanta from Michigan. When my mom told me they were still a ways away, I went up to the counter, but all the spots had already been given up. So, I boarded the plane and found my seat. At the last minute, they called for one more volunteer, and I immediately raised my hand. As I was walking off the plane, there was a Marine standing there, waiting to take my seat. I looked at him and wanted to say Semper Fi!!! But instead, my eyes filled up with tears as I thought about him being able to make it home for Christmas. I smiled through the tears and watched him walk onto the plane. I felt so honored to be able to help another Marine this Christmas...and was truly touched that God gave me the opportunity to give up my seat for someone who really needed it!!! Outside at the desk one of the guys working for the airline thanked me for giving up my seat, and I told him it was a blessing for me to give what I could to help another Marine!

While I was waiting for my next plane, a man was sitting beside me started telling me how the two young boys on the other side of him were his kids and that they lived with their mother in Atlanta. He talked about how he didn't know if he was the best father, but he did know that he was teaching them to love God, and other people. His kind words warmed my heart once again, and I was blessed to be able to hear his story. It's wonderful to know that some dad's are really doing the best they can to raise their children and teach them the important things in life!

Of course when I sat down in my seat on the plane, I sat next to a girl marine!!! She was on her way to see her fiance who was in the Army, and hadn't seen him in over a year. She was so excited, and her and I talked about being away from the person that you love, and then being able to see them again. We talked about how other people really don't understand deployments, and how it's nice to talk with the few people who do. It was great to hear her story, and to talk with her about her concerns and excitement about her upcoming reunion with the love of her life. When I walked off the plane her fiance was there waiting for her, and the tears came again when they hugged and smiled and walked away hand in hand.

Between all the people I met during my trip, and being able to spend a week with my family, this Christmas was one of the best I have ever had! I felt so blessed to have the opportunity to meet so many people, and hear their story. I also felt lucky to have the chance to spend a whole week with my family...especially my mom since this is the last time I will spend with her before I get married. I felt more loved this Christmas than I ever have...and I am so thankful to have Matt, my family, his family, and all of my friends!!!

My New Years this year was great too! I actually got sick on the plane ride back to Virginia on New Years Eve...but I was able to be online with Matt when New Years came in Iraq, and spend him lots of skype kisses!!! Cara and I just stayed in and watched the ball drop in NY on tv...and I was thankful to have her here with me...even though I felt like I ruined her New Years since I couldn't go out...she insisted that she would rather just stay in. I am so blessed with such wonderful friends!!!

This is going to be an amazing year...filled with hope, love, friendship, marriage, celebration, and a million amazing memories!!! I Just want to thank God for loving me enough to bless me this much...His love is more than enough for me!